Monday, November 5, 2012

Reasons why you should stay married

Many will stay in a bad marriage no matter what they are dissatisfied. Here are five reasons that you should in no way affect the adoption of this important decision.

Although each interruption is difficult and painful, unfortunately, it's sometimes the only way out.And while it's easier when you do not change partners and wedding rings when there are no children, married with children loans is people tend to stay "connected" despite the dissatisfaction that brings their relationship.

Here are the top 5 reasons why you should stay in a marriage:

First Fear that you will not find a new partner
If you think that after a divorce, you will never find another person, maybe deep down it does not even want. Maybe you became preogorčeni to enjoy life. The fact is that there are many people who are looking for love, but that you definitely should not prevent you end your marriage.

Second Stay together just for the kids
Children are quite intuitive. Sense when the parents do not like and often think that in some way she was responsible. You do not have to argue in front of them that she felt dissatisfaction in your relationship.

3rd I do not want to hurt the partner
If you do not love your partner and stay in the relationship because you do not want to hurt someone's feelings, it will become clear to your partner. A stay with someone out of pity no one can bring good.

4th It is difficult to admit failure
Someone failed marriage could quite shaken confidence, the feeling that you failed and you are disappointed that inhibits personal development and growth. Condemnation and guilt are present because in such situations difficult to see the full situation.

5th Inertness
If you develop one's personality is not something that makes you happy, inertia might well be easier to cope with unsatisfactory situation in this regard. But if you want to work on themselves in order to be satisfied, the inertia that you will not help.

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