Author: Dragan MILETIĆ
Warhol said that in the future everyone will have a chance to be famous for fifteen minutes. That future is here and scrolling to the press and the Internet we can be assured that the rare ones who do not use this opportunity. In the background is an issue that rarely do, and that's where it all really.
Why would someone be so attention is needed to do almost everything to get it? Speculations are numerous and often come to that inside each has its own reasons for attracting attention and care that what he actually wants to win. However, such explanations exclude a large group of people.They are the ones who care enough in itself and that it really is not a means to achieve something else.
People are divided on what it is that makes them live and in what ways come to that. Someone might target, other profes success or merge with another, while some attention is the main goal. We're talking about histrionic personality disorder which, among other things, the behavior characteristic theatricality, attracting attention, sexually provocative behavior, unstable excessive emotionality and exhibitionism. Although it is often interesting to others and dear in society, especially oniima who just met them, these people are actually filled with a sense of inadequacy and inner emptiness.Their main driver is not really what they want, but the fact that they want from each other and that are the focus of their attention. Autentčnost his sacrifice these people for what the company seeks to gain attention and to feel they live. Deeper feelings experienced by stable personality they are unknown. Experiencing your life as a movie script in which change depending on changes in the environment. Sometimes it will be a comedy, in the second stage drama and tragedy, it is important not only to lose the lead role. The company, eager sensation, will allow them to play and it will be difficult to discover the essence of the problem.
Although it is often interesting to others and dear in society, especially those who have just met them, these people are actually filled with a sense of inadequacy and inner emptiness. Their main driver is not really what they want, but the fact that they want from each other and that are the focus of their attention.
Superficial and impressionistic cognitive style
Histrionic person is full of paradoxes and contradictions. No deep feelings, but constantly in a story about them. With paragraph seducer or seductress, but in fear of seduction. No need for a real analysis of their lives and relationships in it, but keeps talking about it. Style of thinking and speaking of these people makes them stay on the surface, not really dealing with their feelings, and also makes them more interesting to others, especially those who want a splash without much depth. Their vocabulary is full of hyperbole, descriptions and impressions, but with little or no detail and argument. Often described as the others 'najfascinatniju person' or 'worst' without a clear explanation of its position. Reception at which they were to describe as 'the best event of the year' or 'biggest fiasco', but without a clear definition of its description. They are among those who talk a lot but rarely say anything clearly substantiated. Their ability to understand the feelings of the poor, as well as the ability to assess the depth of relationships with others and will, after several sightings of a person, others represent it as his good friend.
A society that promotes the values by which it is more important than how it looks in essence is what actually helps maintain the disorder and makes it difficult noticeable. If we accept that marketing is crucial in all spheres of life, the person is very hard to see a dedicated self-advertising problem. In the broader analysis društvnih factors that help conceal the problem, often speaks of the narcissistic disorder. Although they may look similar histrionic, there are significant differences. Narcissistic person wants others to admire its size, while histrinična lives from the second notice and want.Histrionic person believes that the world is under her and get her to be admired, but she needs to work hard to make the rest of the world wanted. Therefore, the person is ready to histronična different maneuvers and manipulations that Narcissus would never do. Narcissist believes that he deserves admiration itself, while histronična one of the requirements of the market and offers what is required at this time. If you do not get what they want, and histrionic person can fall into despair, as Narcissus himself would never allow it. Histrionic despair in which people fall equally theatrical and overblown and happiness that precedes it. In these periods are even willing to threaten suicide in order to restore attention. Then when they get the attention back on the feelings of sadness that spoke very rapidly disappearing, and people are returning to their previous behavior. As noted above, the feelings of these people are extremely volatile and shallow. This is another problem that can easily go unnoticed in a culture that promotes instant solutions and quick way of life. If we look at the culture of today's Western world and the fact that we are flooded with messages by which to live for the moment and never remove the smile off your face, this person can easily seem like a simple well-adapted individuals.
Feelings of these people are extremely volatile and shallow. This is another problem that can easily go unnoticed in a culture that promotes instant solutions and quick way of life. If we look at the culture of today's Western world and the fact that we are flooded with messages by which to live for the moment and never remove the smile off your face, this person can easily seem like a simple well-adapted individuals.
Histrionic personality traits
However, many problems faced by both themselves, and people in their environment, we are told that this is not a good adaptation. These properties are not necessarily a sign of a personality disorder. The severity of this problem should be thought of as a continuum, and bear in mind that the properties can be expressed to some extent, and to speak of histrionic traits, and it can be a real personality disorder. It is interesting that the relationship may have significantly different problems depending on the extent of the problem.
Those with histrionic features, but we can not fall into personality disorders are distinguished by the following features: enhanced by emotion, but there are elements of restraint affects, reinforced the need to be noticed and loved, there is sexual exhibitionism, have a good control pulses, sexiness is socially acceptable, there is a competitive spirit and ambition, and the activities, decisions and choices are certain mature sense of personal consistency. Although volatile than most, these people will be able to achieve stable and friendship and business goals. You have the ability to achieve in this regard, although they are often complicated interference of a third party because they are prone to fraud and avoid traditional ties.
In the case of histrionic disorder, these characteristics are somewhat different. Then excessive emotionality and unfettered, while the desire for attention further enhanced (it is said that their wish as the bottomless pit). Sexiness is more raw and brutal than the subtle, whereas when they connect sticky and dependent on that person and often sadomasochistic relationships become. Fraud and interference in the third link in this case is rarely happen. Separation and loss of attention from loved ones can not stand and then feel overwhelmed by negative feelings. It is in these stages, these people are most likely to occur in therapy. In addition to links that are complicated, sadomasochistic, and end with the collapse of their dramatized and often include threats of suicide, these people also have a problem and a professional level. How does anything, in fact, they do not pay in full, they work easily lose focus and goal in mind. Their activities are certain primitive fears and desires, and the realization of long-term planning difficult. Insufficient on their own and out of focus, they, as well as in relationships with people, but also in relation to work easily replaced by another one goal and continue to repeat their maneuvers on a new stage. Although it often seems to have a number of initiatives for enterprises, their will is weak and minimal persistence.
Insufficient on their own and out of focus, as well as those dealing with people, and the relationship to work easily replaced by another one goal and continue to repeat their maneuvers on a new stage.Although it often seems to have a number of initiatives for enterprises, their will is weak and minimal persistence.
Why would someone teaser was more significant than anything else?
As with other disorders, the roots of the problem lie in childhood. These people did not have an adequate relationship with the parent of the same sex, and are looking for attention and recognition exclusively opposite-sex parents. Idealization of the parents of the opposite sex and turn away from those of the same sex have a number of effects on the personality of the child. First, these relationships with these people never have to identify with the parent of their sex, and their role and accept women or men. Although often promiskutetni and the role of seducer or seductress, these people have a sense of inadequacy in their gender role.
Because relationships in early childhood, these individuals have a stable experience of ourselves and our own identity. As in childhood were often ignored, recognition and attention, so that the experience of actually living, were exaggerating only if the behavior in order to draw attention to themselves. In this way creates their histrionics and extreme. An additional problem is that pretarano attention to the parent of the opposite sex causes a stronger fear of punishment in the Oedipal period. The desire to have a girl's father for themselves, or to appropriate the boys mother, causing a strong fear that they will not be punished by the other parent, and they begin their behavior as a childish game and thus relieve responsibility for their actions. Until the seduction and attracting attention just a game and people remain childish, punishment can be avoided. In this way, forming a pattern of behavior in which koketnog seduces people, but not and never achieves its goal by the end.In childhood, the goal is to eventually merge with the parent of the opposite sex, while in adults it any deeper connection and devotion to someone or something.
The problem with this disorder is the fact that most social acceptability of their disorder symptoms seem to easily become unrecognizable. There are many people who follow trends and have a really authentic positive attitude towards life and should not be confused with histrionic. However, in the histrioničnih luck and more on how they differ from other people who follow the trends, the people who are energetic, and sometimes like to ensure there is adequate spotlight on them. What, besides the theatrics, manipulation and emotional instability, particularly distinguishes people with histrionic disorder is the fact that they have no ability to relate to themselves, nor relations with others, and they can not establish true intimacy. Unfortunately, these qualities are not something that can be seen at a glance and, if the company promotes superficiality, what makes these people different from the others may remain undetected for a long time.