Monday, January 7, 2013

Let others do what you want

No matter whether you are trying to stop someone pushed in front of you in line at the bank or persuade a traffic warden to let only a warning, your body language says more than a thousand words

Despite the pronouncement of how silence is gold, most of us are not even aware of how many things subliminally urge people around us without saying a word. No matter whether you are trying to stop someone pushed in front of you in line at the bank, to persuade a traffic warden to let only a warning or catch a glimpse of a handsome stranger on a tram, sometimes your body language can speak a thousand words. Do you have a sense of themselves that they often send the wrong message, or that others simply do not understand the way you would like, these few tips can give you some answers.


It is often said that the eyes are the mirror of the soul. Despite the clich√©, the saying is not as silly as we thought. Eyes are one of the first things that someone notices on our site and send full range of non-verbal messages which generally are unaware. For example, the eye pupil suddenly expand when we meet someone we like. However, there are a few tricks of the trade

Would you like to leave a good impression on the other person, look them in the eye about 60 to 70 percent of the time. Many world politicians are well trained in this, as this will slow scan other people's eyes when you say something to leave an extremely strong impression.

Also, you can use your eyes and frighten another person, for example, completely avoiding eye contact. If you are in some kind of group of people that makes you uncomfortable, slow, switch view from one person to another without blinking. First, move the view, and then the head, while keeping the torso in place, something like Arnold Schwarzenegger in The Terminator.

Open arms signify confident and constructive attitude and create a positive impression. On the other hand, folds his hands, and another will be considered your position defense and repulsive.

Do you want to make a good impression on the person sitting across from you with her arms crossed (for example, in a job interview), it is a good idea to give them something they need to keep in order to force them to spread out.

When you get to know a group of people, do not cross your hands, but keep them on the sides or in the so-called. "Position of power", with one hand on top of the other in front of body at waist level.

Are we on the kind of social event that makes you uncomfortable, hold a glass in front of him with both hands. This will create a subtle but very clear barrier between you and the environment.
The palms

Surely you have heard many times how good handshake is important for a good impression. A weak grip gives the impression of disinterest, but it can also be a sign of femininity in the gentler sex. Some men still squeezing his hand so hard that you ispremijeŇ°aju all the bones of the hand, but this is squeezing long dismissed as unnecessary.

Firm and confident grip still makes the best impression. Would you like your hand is on top, set it to be tilted slightly downward just before the operation.

What to do in a situation when someone grabs her hand and starts to squeeze like a maniac? Put your left hand on top and their right to operate the so-called. "Double squeeze." This allows you to take back control of the subtle handling. Such handling is very often resort to politicians as they struggle to be the ones "in charge".

Do you have bad posture, coma will be a little too important at that moment talking about. Would you like to get a second opinion if you are powerful and hold the strings in his hands, keep your legs are slightly out of step while standing. Height definitely helps to leave a better impression, but senior people generally tend pogrbljivanju, leaving the impression of lack of confidence.

On the other hand, short people have to leave the impression of height. Just look at French president Nicolas Sarkozy, who is a very short man, but walk like a tiger, and shows that the person has great power. 

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